There are those sons dying to get as far away from their fathers as possible, but some are so inspired by their old men that they not only maintain close bonds with them but also join the same trade as them.
CONFESSIONS256 talks to some of the men who have excelled where their fathers have impressed, while some have even surpassed their fathers’ achievements.
As much as it has its perks, having a father who is already established and respected in your field of work can be a problem and a cause of frustration for some men, especially if there is a feeling that you are not as impressive as your old man. Yet for some men, it carves out a path for immense career excellence.
Putting on the shoes of your father and proving that you can walk in them can be a daunting task for some men but not for Elison Karuhanga. The oil and gas lawyer is the son of Elly Karuhanga, a distinguished lawyer and entrepreneur.
Although they are in related fields, Elison says that he has never relied on his father’s name to get ahead in life. Even when he could have chosen to relax and work in his father’s law firm, Elison worked to obtain a Chevening scholarship from the British High Commission and studied Oil and Gas Law in Aberdeen, Scotland.
He also did a secondment at the international law firm, Ashurst, for a three-month period. In that time, he worked in the busy Energy, Transport and Infrastructure (ETI) section.
Having such connections so early in his career ensured that he did not have to run back to daddy for financial and career help. He has worked in the Attorney General’s chambers, Dfcu bank and many other organisations. Today, he is one of the few trained oil and gas lawyers in Uganda and also has his own law firm.
“I thought I would be developed better professionally if I worked elsewhere rather than with my father. I thought I would be better positioned as a worker, better exposed and better experienced as a worker if I worked elsewhere,” Elison says.
However, he cannot rubbish off his father’s contribution to his career development.
“I have someone to look up to and discuss with. And he has experience; so, I can consult with him on many issues,” Elison says, adding: “sometimes people may judge you because of who your father is but you just let your work speak for itself. It is a great thing to be thriving as a lawyer and walk in the footsteps of my father.”
NO PRESSURE FROM DADDY
Interestingly, most of such sons say that they were not pressured by their fathers or families. Their decisions were of their own making.
“I made the decision to become a lawyer myself. My father could never make me do something I did not already want to do. My decision was out of admiration for my father’s work and I grew up wanting to become a lawyer,” says Elison.
Dr Busingye Kabumba
Some argue that a child can take up his father’s profession after growing up because that is what they have grown up seeing. Dr Kabumba Busingye, a law professor at Makerere University, says that his was a case of unconscious socialization after growing up in a lecturer’s home. Busingye is the son of Professor Ijuka Kabumba, the former managing director of National Insurance Corporation (NIC).
“There are certain aspects of socialization in the decisions many children make. I grew up surrounded by books; so, I loved to read. My father used to mark students’ scripts; so, I grew up knowing that was the normal way of life. No one sat me down and told me you have to go into education. It was something I knew I had to do,” says Busingye.
OUT OF DADDY’S GIGANTIC SHADOW
Elvis Sekyanzi, a thriving businessman, is an example of men who have struggled to get out of their father’s shadow. The son of business mogul Gordon Wavamunno, Sekyanzi held various top managerial positions in almost all his father’s businesses.
Despite having his father’s wealth base to fall back on, Sekyanzi went on further to qualify as an engineer from the London College of Electronics. Today, he owns Silk Events and is a shareholder in Club Silk. He has successfully managed to shed off the ‘Wavamunno’s son’ tag on his name.
Busingye says it is not a matter of stepping out of your father’s shadow but, rather, a continuation of a legacy. He only worked to live up to a name that already exists.
He, therefore, adds that he was not bothered by the fact that he was going into a field in which his father had already established a name. He, rather, focused on his values to get to where he is today.
“It was not a question of career as much as it was a contribution to society. It is the values about earning money honestly and contributing to society. What was emphasized in my family was the dignity of labour,” he says.